Stress free life is impossible. Stress is a response of challenges in life, and a life without challenges would be too boring. However, ladies be aware that most of the stress in our lives is unnecessary, and it can be can be eliminated by taking some steps.
Your man gets up in the morning late, and now has to rush to get ready for work, due to rush your man spills his coffee on his shirt and get more late to being change. Your spouse heads out the door then rushed back in the house because he forgot his wallet, gets in the car and realizes he forgot his keys inside. In office bundles of work laid pending to complete.
Being too late and regularly he failed to attain the good rapport on work. His mind is occupied with pending projects and the fear of negative evaluation.
He gets home late, fatigued and completely stressed; in such condition it would be difficult for him to meet your expectations. Now what should be your role there to help him out? Following tips would be helpful for you to De-stress your man.
Find out the Stressors
Take your time and find out the stress triggers of your spouse, the stress generating activities, events, people and behaviors. It would be good if you make a list of these stressors. After making list, have a keen glance from where you can take an easy start to eliminate them. It’s not necessary you must have to eliminate all stressors as it’s not possible. Where you are unable to eliminate find your ways to make them less stressful for your husband.
Fix your Man’s Disorganization
You have to target the disorganization in your man. Disorganization is one of the major sources of stress in people’s lives, if the important things not done or late done cause irritation for other people it may destroy the harmony in your relationship. Men are usually lazy and don’t bother things to done on time, in order to avoid stress keep a strict check on your spouse routine and try to make it timely and appropriately done.
If you feel that your husband is stressed it’s not necessary to talk melancholies or quotations like a therapist and intellectuals. Sometimes the childish and stupid acts may help to release stress. Advising works but some silly acts like to fight with pillows may bring a chuckle on your husband’s face and de-stress him.
Shut-up Chatter Box
With due respect, women are in habit to speak a lot and sometimes totally unnecessary. Your husband is stresses instead of de-stressing your speaking habit may trigger his stress. It would be very nice if you stop and listen to your husband for few hours. When you give a chance to your husband to talk he may reveal the actual matters what bothering him and causing stress, so it will be very helpful for you in stress fixation of your man.
A good Spa Massage
Stress is a part of life; we can’t avoid it but can reduce it when it pops up into our lives. Give a good spa massage to your husband, your gentle and affectionate touch would really a good tool to de-stress your husband.